One Step at a Time

Famous recording artist, Jordin Sparks, hits it right on the head when it comes to her song, "One Step At a Time." 

 We live and we learn to take
One step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly
Or falling in love
It's gonna happen when it's
Supposed to happen and we
Find the reasons why
One step at a time

As I read over those lyrics and they keep playing in my head like a broken record throughout my day, I remind myself with the possible changes ahead, that I have to take things "one step at a time."  There is no point in holding off on things just because a career change or a possible move new town to call "home," I must keep living my life the way I have been.  

Looking forward into my future, I find myself wondering where I will be in a few weeks, will I work another brutal winter at the dairy or will I find myself sitting in a nice, warm and cozy office in downtown Indy?  Or what about commitments I have at home and with the organizations I am involved in? Do I keep attending meetings, helping with specific functions and giving my input? Or do I just start telling people I can't commit to things and must put my life on hold until I know what my future holds? 

Answering those questions on my own, in my head, every day for the past week,  I have allowed myself to think of Spark's famous song and to remind myself to just take it all in as I continue my daily routine and rise each morning.  It's simply silly to worry and think too much about things...I must just go with the flow. 

Things are going to happen how and when they are supposed to happen, whether I like it or not.  Relocating to a different area isn't something my heart desires, but it's something I am willing to do to make my life a little bit better.  And as I "find the reasons why" opportunity doors open and may close sooner than expected, I will learn to "live and take, one step at a time."     

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Optimistic Farmers

W ill Rogers once said, "The farmer has to be an optimist or he wouldn’t still be a farmer." As I read that quote the other day, I thought about how true that was. Just in the past week there has been a farmer who lost his combine to a fire and a farmer whose barn went up in flames. I also read about a community that stepped up to help harvest crops that belonged to a farmer with cancer. Talk about having some optimism despite tragedy and loss! I’ve discussed my childhood before and growing up on a dairy farm. However, pondering what Will Rogers said brought back a lot of memories from when I grew up; some good memories and some bad, some happy and sad. One memory I won’t ever forget is when I was awaken one night by hearing a cow heavily breathing right outside my window. Well, for those who have raised animals, we all know what it means when they are breathing heavy ... they probably have been running. Upon going outside, my siblings, parents and I didn’t find
Read more

To the Next Chapter

In May 2012, I was a graduate of Purdue University with a Bachelor of Science in Agriculture Communication.  Of course I thought I was going to land a job that promised the big bucks and an early retirement.  But, as we all know, trying to make our own plans for our lives doesn't usually work and will almost ALWAYS backfire.  And my expectations of the big bucks and easy life ended up not being quite what I expected. During the past 18 months of working at Homestead Dairy, LLC., in northern Indiana, I have learned so much.  Learning how a 3,500-cow dairy works and how short your patience can get when trying to get 14-20 two-day old heifers on the bucket; the scars on my hands from their sharp teeth can help tell that story.  Or the days trying to beat the rain to get the calves fed their milk and back in their hutches before it down poured rain.  I also ran into the issue of language barriers working the the Mexican men.  There were times where things were easy to understand and
Read more